When blind date what to say
A man and a woman, the one man; disguise, appeared on stage with her; clever talk and an ingratiating manner, said Hugh; have ulterior motives, their own calculation--this is a blind date, not drama, but better to play. Neither the good faith of even the most basic, is a joke; one side sees the other side and the other side did not feel called games; look down on each other, then; licensing married immediately on the day of my eyes, then it must surely be Immortals set 500 years ago model operas.
Since it is a drama, how little joke. It is true that the blind date without success often depends on other aspects, such as portals, thin or not, the matchmaker needless, but who can completely deny that originally looked humble person, can also be dependent on language expression to capture each other's charm, humor?
Bold evaluation of each other
Most little planned blind date, in between the two meet has mastered the basic situation of each other, such as qualifications, what works, what personality, family composition, with committed parents or matchmakers, and even on each other's face has a few naevus statistics from the photo well. Thus, the blind date the most important purpose is reflected in the "eyesore" on it. Thin this standard seems simple, but it is mysterious and mysterious no elusive, but regardless of the first thing you have to see men and women Shun each other, but the bit about his coming to the blind date has also the most basic curiosity.
So you want to use the other's this curiosity, boldly in the first time, to the point about your evaluation, that of comparable length to introduce myself and I do not know what topic is much more nutritious, both seem easygoing and express your faith can also cause each other a great deal of attention in the first time. If she was indeed beautiful, you can say: "nice to meet you, you're beautiful. "Mind the attitude you want to drill that sincere. If she looks generally, there is no need to have to be cited on the way of her beauty, you can evaluate the temperament or the dress or something.
When you kiss, it was used to own that holding yourself to the clouds in the sky, much talk about how many people talk about how much their capability and pursuit, that such a move could attract each other, everyone knows that's exactly what a guilty conscience, once a discerning eye to see through, from the clouds drop to the bottom of it won't be me. Real confident people are good at self-mockery, President Lincoln would make fun of themselves, especially the appearance of his own: "sometimes I feel like an ugly person. The ugly people in the forest to meet a woman, the woman said, you are the ugliest I've ever seen one. Ugly person to answer, so I have no idea. Old woman answered, no, you have the means, you can stay at home and not at least go out! " The and is now "looks ugly is not your fault, but scary is that you do not" as a be frequently taken jokes, opened by President Lincoln used to talk with others embarrassment almost raids.
Boasted often let each other has "actually also thrills" of ideas, and self-deprecation will let each other wanted to "also no then poor why", this a sense views Shang of difference on can decided each other on you of scoring standard, from also a level said, good self-deprecation of people often is has very strong of self-confidence of, this is in you measured scale of self-deprecation in the must can show out, also will let each other feel are. In addition, himself as the topic of opening, even bad grasp a sense of propriety is harmless, but also can make the other person's attention more naturally in your body.
Moderate show humor
Zhao benshan Song Dandan said: "I'll tell you a joke, finished open the embarrassing situation. "Appropriate jokes humor has always been open, decent good weapons for embarrassment. Blind date is a drama, even if they may not have the outcome, but at least some of you want to make the dating process as pleasant as possible, to make it a "comedy" rather than "stuffy drama."
But humor is easier said than done. How to grasp the scale is one of the biggest problems, get a bad lip service not good, for example, Fiona met this blind date object, desperate to show in front of her humor, only colder. Fiona asked: "where did you find?" He said: "How did you know my uncle is very high. "Fiona said:" I like the taste of man. "He said:" Oh, I haven't bathed for several days, you can smell. "Fiona wants to direct anger go – when and when you talk about the issue quite seriously, this thought humorous answer will make the other person feel lacking in sincerity.
Believe that as long as you have these Trump, you immediately filled men will certainly favor.
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