How to be a fun bride

I have access to a large number of cases, "Flash off" the biggest incentive was not understanding and in the marriage of the parties to the marriage are self-centered. There was a 25 year old girl, and her boyfriend knew a month later married and divorced after a month. She said with hurt: "did not expect to get married so boring. Bars and coffee shops, singing, I can freely play a stimulating game, now have to stay at home all day. "Then ask her, nothing could have prepared, why rush to marry when she look innocent:" just because a bridesmaid, found the bride special fun. ”

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Sexual disharmony is young "Flash off" one of the causes. "The thought that after marriage, have a chance to good affectionate intimacy with his wife. But she always blame on busy, honeymoon time in open conference call. And she said, also scolded me for not understanding, too selfish. Even the most basic of obligations between husband and wife does not guarantee, the wedding was, what do you mean? " A young husband told me. Sex is the sublimation of love actually, only two people unity of God, might have the perfect sex and sex but also to promote the further integration of emotion.

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Balzac once said: "in all human wisdom, knowledge knows the most about the marriage night. Therefore, knowledge is the need to learn about marriage. "In fact, a truly happy marriage, in addition to attracting full of passion, all rational, also requires anastomosis of the personality and values close to each other. Values and personality of both need to be in love slowly in understanding.
Most likely the "Flash off" time is early marriage. To avoid this situation, young couples to be adjusted in two ways:

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, Adjust the expectations of marriage. Knowledge to learning through a variety of means marriage. Marriage is a process of slowly evolved into family life passion. In marriage, love the idea, belief hasn't changed, but the scenes and forms have changed. Main places of activity from a shady path, cafes, cinema into a kitchen, bedroom. Action instead of language, perfectly natural to relax tension instead of in front of the other to maintain optimal; easy life instead of romantic romantic. Understanding the nature of marriage, marriage disappointment emotions will be relieved.

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Second, in marriage to reducing "I" position, enhance the "we". Two a people can love, more or less has same of local, on like two a ring will has overlap of part, married Hou, both in personality, and values and this leads of life habits, and behavior way, and consumption concept, area, are should gave up some original of content, let overlap of part increasingly large, so "we" of status on upgrade has, life in together on will relative easily. Because people cannot control nor change each other, we can change only their own.