2012年4月29日星期日

Africans how to wedding


Africans wear a wedding dress? Say that before, really nothing marry girls in Africa wear a wedding dress. When the wedding photos, bride natural traditional African dress, many people choose a beautiful dress batik cloth, embroidery cloth, such as high-grade fabric production. Catholic, Christian, African coastal cities have become accustomed to a wedding in the church, but also rarely wear a wedding dress to take pictures. The reason, first, most people are not willing to spend money in this regard; another traditional wedding for white hair, color and body, African girls feel that wearing does not look good.





But in recent years, fashion magazines and television programs in Africa is very popular, so that local people began to adapt to the tastes of the wedding, more and more active in Europe and the United States t-stage, black female models to their fellow citizens to show a unique wedding charm, so wear a wedding dress, wedding photographs soon became the fashion of many countries young people.
Due to limited financial resources, most African bride does not customized wedding, but on loan to the "wedding dress rental shop. These stores are generally open in the bustling commercial street, the street has a large, bright glass window. In Benin, a set of ordinary wedding day rental fee of 3,000 CFA francs (about 50 yuan).




Interestingly, many African brides like to rent the wedding dress of light blue, pink and other colors, instead of the white wedding, with skin color needs. In addition, these used to rent the wedding mostly second-hand goods not specifically designed for the locals, so wear incongruous.






It is worth mentioning, Africa Photo Gallery rarely provide complete wedding services, because such services are not subject to the new people: too tired, too expensive and too wasted effort. We can see the wedding photos, mostly asked people to direct site shooting, photographers throughout the double identity of the guests and staff attending the wedding.





Reporters in Mali had attended a wedding, new people to spend 25,000 West African francs (about 400 yuan), rented a small restaurant (meals), spend 75,000 West African francs (about 1200 yuan), bands, photographers, and employed a float. As a result, hundreds of people attended the grand wedding Fengfengguangguang opening wedding drums, singing, laughter heard, the photographer is also busy with the new best screen to retain the photo. The entire wedding cost of small, newcomers and guests are nothing but happy, fun.






With the camera at the wedding dress wedding will only wear for a little while, at other times the bride will be put on the beautiful African dresses, and guests. African wedding and ultimately, dance and drums, and always wore a rented wedding is very awkward.






Africans on the marriage certificate photo, the bride wore what? In Africa for many years, I saw two marriage certificates, the photo above, respectively, with the bride and groom inch color photo spliced ​​into the bride's clothes naturally no pay attention to. In fact, in many parts of Africa, especially in rural areas, often only on the wedding is not heavy documents, many couples have children full house has not been registered.

2012年4月28日星期六

China's marriage customs



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, Jiaobei wines and first married couple
"Drink the nuptial Cup get married" for people, the word was unknown. However, the groom and the bride's "jiaobei wine" is every person who married or have wedding is very familiar with. "Drink the nuptial Cup get married" refers to newly married couples in the bridal chamber have trail-drinking wine. Nuptial wine cup is floating the implication is that section into two a gourd gourd, the bride and groom each take one, to drink, they drink the nuptial Cup get married, drink the nuptial Cup get married began in the Zhou dynasty, descendants nuptial wine cup with a gourd and bitter gourd is not eaten, used for holding wine is Becherovka. So, drink the nuptial Cup get married couple drink wine, not only combined symbol and his wife, since the closed wing is good, but also contains the bride and groom share weal and woe with deep. As contained in the rites: "fit, with a view, to parents. ”
After the song, drink the nuptial Cup get married at the evolution for the newlywed couple drinking jiaobei wine. The Tokyo dream hualu · married Lady records: new man "with two color junction of and drink a Cup, that of jiaobei. Settle-drinking, throwing the dry bed and corolla, Yang, Gu Yun Daji, the greeting, and then hide your account settle. "The symbolism of the ceremony was significant.


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Today, of rural youth, wedding, wedlock is essential, but its form than the ancient simple. Men and women after the respective pouring arms relative to hook eyes on the TV, drank a warmth and joy, laughter, or a bridal or wedding hall, hotel, restaurant. According to folk tradition, wedlock is held in the bridal chamber, so regard the co-Jin into the bridal chamber together What's the difference, but regardless of this vulgar expression, and its meaning is consistent with the mentality, knot forever, not separated suggesting that newly married couples in the future long-term marriage will have an impact.
When the wedding to put people into remote mountain village, regardless of the lives of ordinary people how difficult, but through the wedlock filled out the laughter, we can see that the constancy of love, longing for a better life.
According to wedding customs in wedlock after, often also held the knot made of the ceremony. The Statement said in the ancient co-bun to take married men and women of the hair knot, newlywed couple sitting in the same bed, Nanzuonvyou. However, this ceremony is confined to the new first marriage, remarriage is not. People often say that the knot husband and wife, also refers to the wife husband and wife, concubines and second wife and so can not get statement issued respectfully.
Ancient marriage custom, the knot hair contains a very solemn significance, then this practice is gradually disappearing, but the statement issued this term preserved. The Statement couple respected by the people, the statement issued to the beautiful meaning symbolizing the separation of husband and wife never like wedlock in rural areas, most people still get the full recognition and praise.
Men concubines, and raised the concubine of the times, the statement issued a couple is particularly prominent. So whether it is towards the the Shinco Scholars Taya Lang morning, Gordon Son of Heaven Church, or a sudden windfall of businessmen landlord, in climbing wealth, whoring, continued satisfied that the concubine of, are generally required to the statement made husband and wife to maintain a certain respect .
In the psychological and emotional of the Chinese people since ancient times, long for thousands of years, especially heavy knot made husband and wife.
The Statement means "first time". In men and women accept not pro people's life with those of the opposite sex very few stars, The Statement, means the first time accepted heterosexual fresh the first time a knowing smile, the first taste of the happiness of love, for the first time set up their own families. So, anyway, the first time are precious and cherished.
In addition. Results returned has a solemn, sacred, God, fate, and so get the deeper meaning of social recognition, and on this basis, the parties to a marriage of duty and responsibility.


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Second, the bridal chamber of secrets
Final program of the bridal chamber is the wedding, is essential for any wedding, it is the climax of the wedding, is also the most boisterous of the most interesting programs.
Wedding night, relatives and friends in the sitting room, all joking on the bride, called "naofang", "play the bride". Range has the same effect. In General can be divided into literature and weapons in two ways. In a more elegant manner, tend to be the bride out Riddle, pair, please tell a loving experience and ordinary men and women not to be told, Shanxi folk saying "say", humor, forcing the bride not interactions of oneself, as a means of pleasure. "Is overnight, boon Tan Xie language classified as tonal patterns and rhyme schemes of poetry, top bride song, called ' naofang '. Worse, celebrating the sincere feeling of playful, inhibition of faux pas. "(The Republic of China: of the Yicheng County local records) is used more savage manner, not only out of the dirty words, pawing her on the bride, mischievous nature.
When the bridal chamber, of the same generation, junior, relatives and friends, classmates colleagues have poured into a new House, laugh please, especially friends of the groom, they got to do whatever we can to come up with all sorts of ways, demonstrate the bride, to tickle tease, the saying goes, "3rd no size", but parents can make. During this period, casual relations between people are allowed for custom, many taboos have been lifted, much like Mardi Gras in Western culture. Therefore, in any case play, hard to accept, the bride is absolutely cannot fall out angry. If the bridal chamber of the people, is considered to be the bride's wayward, popularity, well, future years would not be easy.


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Bridal chamber was a congratulations to the newlyweds. In folklore, often in the bridal chamber was considered Fox, Ghost worship, by the evil spirits of yin, Yang of the increasing human potential, of the bridal chamber, folk the saying "not haunted."
Naofang test of function but also for newly married couples, including the tact and patience, used to be a "pass the test", but in folk often excessive, become undesirable customs.
Bridal chamber practices of very ancient origin, entered the Han "Yan weddings between overnight, no men and women only. "(The Chinese book of the geographical journal) naofang may be derived from" listening room ". On their wedding night, friends and relatives in the bridal chamber window eavesdropping bride speech and action, is nothing more than people interested in nanhuannu: AI thing. From a psychological perspective, this move appeared in Freud's theory of "yiyin" Act. Later evolved to be teasing the bride the bridal chamber. This custom to the Tang dynasty, folk, not only his relatives, friends are teasing the bride's right greeting guests, even irrelevant stranger, you can stop in the Middle, it would be rude, touching teasing, demands in difficult. Such practices from ancient times to the present, from individual to collective action.
Overview of the bridal chamber, driven people listening room, complex psychological motivation of the bridal chamber.
First, this is a people sexual consciousness of outside of and subconsciously of impulse, people from naofang play woman and Fu woman in, performance has on specific of a species teasing, vent out zhihou will can overcome both envy and bogey of psychological, to reached sexual in "subconsciously" boundaries of a species balance, this on specific of attitude and behavior in usually is was strictly limit of, Bridal Chamber just provides has a opportunities.
Second, the product of the bridal chamber is arranged in the traditional marriage. Because it is only after the wedding ceremony, exciting wipes the bride and groom can open red cover, the couple didn't know each other before, non-intersecting, non-emotional communication, met a total of fell in love for the first time, are clearly unfamiliar and embarrassing. Therefore, custom bridal chamber eliminates the sense of distance and strangers to each other, coordinated climate of tension between the two, good feelings. There is no doubt that the bridal chamber is a hundred meters of the race before the necessary preparations.
In addition, thriving Fortune under driven, most of the wedding House, have suffered from all the friends and relatives of both, and are willing to let their double.
Naofang friends and familiar with both, and family guests and vistors fill up the seats, prosperous, and enhancing communication between relatives and friends and feelings, as well as the neighborhood of harmony.
Buzz is the aesthetic ideals of the Chinese people's lives, bridal chamber is the perfect means of this border. Busy in order to form a happy event festive atmosphere, is a happy scene, is a symbol of a jubilant and thriving, only large, festive markets, dividends can be opened, population to flourish.


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In China, sex is a custom highly constrained behavior. People not only on the open, lawful sexual relations showed great interest, norms and customs of trying to infiltrate every crevice of our lives.
In the Book of Songs, we talked about the many women eloped with lovers story, at least in the time of Confucius, the upper social strata, the confusion of sexual relations between men and women how much like the fallen Roman times. Was very easy to divorce, remarriage is not difficult, the girl's virginity is not of particular concern.
However, with the rise of Confucianism, especially after the flooding of the Song Dynasty Neo, women were considered the social and moral responsibility, the Neo forced the lives of women in the world of confinement, widow remarriage is a moral evil, and have cherished women The chaste.
Since then, the Chinese people for the worship of women's chastity became a psychological obsession. This obsession is a bad example is the so-called "bridal experience Zhen". This custom of the bride's virginity or not, into a spot inspection and all testify to the side naked virgin test, sad yes, the groom do not think this is the insult, a gob of own emotions, the bride do not think it is an insult to their own personality. The custom has distorted people's hearts.
Bridal customs inspection Ching is called in the civil experience red "granted towel, existed since ancient times. Wedding day by the mother of the bride gave her daughter or son-in-law, white handkerchiefs, thinking that with the beginning of the line intercourse, civil society, also known as "The Joy Pa".
Old dynasties set wedding, has granted the gift of the towel. Some places such as Guangdong, after granted towel, the bride and groom to close burglary, clouds and rain to make love to the groom's parents and friends wait at the door, romantic groom holding Zhu plate, placed within the granted towel, covered with Red Pa, as shown in the bride for the virgin new red, everyone happy, and have congratulated and roast pig to send the bride and her family. Prior to this, her family has been surmise anxious unrest, fear of the bride but not virgin red.
The sole criterion for testing the virgin because the hymen is broken, once seen red, groom and family will have to be attributed to the bride of unchastity, at least psychologically to produce great suspicion and discord, the formation of the diaphragm. The light so that the bride speechless and humiliated for life, no position in front of the husband's family and her husband, re-deported by the matchmaker woman returns to her parents.
Emphasis on virgin red, is the general concept of the Chinese society. Text good at observing people again to give a romantic ambience.
Wang Shih-fu's "The West Chamber" in the account of Zhang Sheng and Cui Yingying's tryst with particular reference to the napkin, he wrote:
Backyard flower "(later) spring Luo children pale, early to see the red cedar, point tender color, lamp low eye spy, chest meat, hides, Chang Qizai covered Winton, I do not know the spring from where to."
Playwright Tang Xian Zu its Handan Dream "that the dialogue of very bright colors, saying:" husband and wife Jin Dongfang Anthurium, ...... river made off Cha, Meng catch, no media Weaver capacity recruit married Hugh meter hanging, no sigh! multi-dipped hi Tan Lang eye scared the red at first glance, beautiful smile blowing silver wax. tonight sleep Bi screens, the Ming Dynasty to see take the Hong Ropa.
Tao Zongyi cease cultivation "recorded a Bride no virgin red scholar Yuan potential gift a dream to make a" Tonight hold a Banquet feast, quasi intended Ling Fong again, spring has gone, and asked very red crimson shallow gone, gone, also party Sclerotium.
Today, in the rural areas of Shanxi, customs inspection red rare. But some places are often in the wedding the next morning to see red, white towel on the conspicuous place outside the new house to show outsiders that the bride was a virgin.


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2012年4月26日星期四

How to buy wedding dress online

Online shopping wedding can only see the picture, but can not be seen in the picture quality of a wedding edition and texture, the seller usually demonstrate in-kind photos, or from the photo to see the difference. If you have time, try to look at several, and finally selected two or three, the price or a contrast. To pay attention to the details of the plan, wedding workmanship and materials can sometimes be seen from the details of the picture quality, such as the seams of a good wedding will be very neat, the material also can observe the reflective fabric to confirm the quality of materials, reflective strong fabric, texture is rather poor, but not comfortable wearing.
, The amount of size is particularly important because it is not the scene try. Different style needs are not the same size, generally net height, measurements (bust, waist, hip), shoes higher, according to the different styles, shoulder, upper chest under the bust, neck, back width, back length, etc. dozens of data, in short, the more detailed the better, according to the data you provide, the seller will choose your size.
Be sure to ask the owner to the wedding finished leaving room for scaling to be adjusted based on the effect you're wearing. Selection criteria and casual wedding size is just the opposite, should be small not big, because as long as the slightly larger, due to the weight of the skirt will drag sag, resulting in emptied. And the bride on her wedding eve is inevitable because of hard work and getting thinner, so try to underreporting of some size is a safer method.
Version of the type of wedding, fabric, workmanship, style, etc., the seller will be in the wedding photos with a simple introduction can be mostly made it very vague, for example, with fabric imported satin, imported yarn, imported decorative beads, imported lace trim ... For the uninitiated, simply can not tell the difference between domestic and imported, whether the "import" is what is probably non-professionals alone literally do not understand. Therefore the best choice to provide specific fabrics the name of the shop, before you buy, the bride but also catching the fabric of knowledge.
Online shopping wedding generally build more tall models to show, be sure to recognize the difference between their own conditions and models, choose the style, not just have an image effect, the most suitable for you only the best. And online shopping wedding style and more "cottage" If you do not want to be well-known friends make fun of fashion information, or to vote for some of the classic, simple design, overly complex models, online shopping store may not be able to produce a corresponding effect .
To remind the industry to verify the information left by the network seller; try to large, well-known, the credit system and the security of online shopping, after receiving the first payment after receipt of the goods in person inspection; cautious treatment of the seller to deliver the deposit ; try not to use a public computer to shop, pay and other operations, not easily own network account, credit card account numbers and passwords disclosed to strangers; find websites bad, illegal and suspected fraud, or has been fall into the phishing trap, in a timely manner to the public security organs in the complaint or report.
Online shopping wedding there is a considerable risk, even if carefully selected, may also buy totally inappropriate for their own. So be sure to confirm before buying a good return service. If you can not return on the network reseller, or sell them to a small wedding photography shop. In short, choose online shopping wedding at the same time, also chose to take some risks, so to have a positive attitude, if there are problems, select the correct solution, and bear the losses caused by risk.